n00dle won’t probably come back to this forums, but I want to thank him anyway. He has showed me so much, and now I’m really confident i will reach my objectives. I think i owe him an explanation of what he was trying to say, yet another interpreter to his words. But I’ll try anyway.
We can initially assume there actually exists a God out there, or some kind of supreme entities that keep watch over us and keeps a log of all that happened, meaning his log is THE objective reality, the external view over our actions.
However, no one known has access to that, and thus we are constrained within our own way of seeing reality every day; each and everyone of us indeed possesses a way of reasoning that interprets everything that happens around him.
Let’s say you wanted to offend someone because he’s very stupid, and thought of a clever insult: you would meet him, get in a conversation with him, and then use your offense; but let’s pretend he didn’t quite get it, and thought it was a compliment instead. In his way of seeing things, he did not receive any offense; in his reality, the conversation was positive. He will walk away happy. Reality is only as important as what your perception tells you about it.
The way we see reality is the only point of view we’ll ever possess - we can’t detach ourselves and truly examine objects with different eyes. We have our reality, and we keep coherent to it. Look at conspirationists - they look for theories, find proofs, see every government act as a attempt to subdue and control us - while the debunkers do the exact opposite, see these theories as false and read the same facts in a completely different manner. Some think there is a single truth, but even if we asked the source, the author of these facts, would he be even able to answer the truth? Will there even be a single one? Man is often guided by multiple motivations at once in his actions, many of which are often contradictory and are kept hidden even to himself.
People have different views about what surrounds us - talking about matter, strings, souls, brain in jars, which of any of these is true? The fact is, we have no means to ultimately find out, thus the only thing we can cling onto is our perception of reality. By choosing what to believe in, we define our reality; in a sense, we create it (or more often, we let someone create it for us).
When n00dle says he created people - he means he created the scheme, in his mind, of people different than himself - instead of seeing them as just a bunch of piled atoms, for example, which walk around, doing nonsense and saying gibberish; in the same sense, he creates the events too - if anything happens outside himself, he can or cannot accept them as facts, instead of IE. a joke the local news is playing on him. In his world, he created everything that surrounds him - in the sense he built the schema to interpret and use reality. If someone could not feel pain or love - would he see see reality in the same way as you? When you light up a TV, you would see aliens shooting lasers at monsters; a monkey, or a savage, looking at it for the first time, would probably only see flickers of light of a strange lamp. And guess what - you and the savage are both right, and as such, you both were wrong, as there is no single way of defining reality, reducing it to single statements.
Now, if i believe in telekinesis, I’ll look articles that support my view, look for videos that show some telekinesis, and even if some videos are false, i won’t actually look for the trick, but just enjoy the show and see into them the power of the mind at work. I’ll try to recreate it at home, and actually see either success in my tries, or the fact i need more training. In every case, telekinesis is a fact for me that cannot be denied easily. It will be the opposite for a disbeliever - they’ll see a trick even if they actually didn’t, and stay with his vision that’s all a bunch of bull. We only see what we want to see, most of the time. In the same way, people can get carried away with their vision of reality, and think people can fly, use powers, and such. To him, this is true; if he really wants to see people fly, he can. To others, this would be completely false, and would want to prove him. That’s what science and experiments are for, isn’t it? Indeed, science is the attempt of humanity to gain a solid common ground to define and understand reality, but there are fatal flaws to this: science doesn’t write itself, nor has a conscience of its own; that means, any result of an experiment can be only as objective as the scientist observing it; and, the only place where science possesses any meaning is the human mind, and as such, everyone is still free to accept it or refuse it, maybe for no particular reason, without any supreme entity slamming a big book of Science on their head, telling them to join the righteous belief.
Every conscience has its own vision, that is not the objective truth, nor is the vision of anyone else.
Everyday, we bend reality to our preconceptions and define it; to us, it is true only what we believe it is; this, coupled with the fact (which you are free to disbelieve, even if it will be detrimental for you, at best) that every single human mind is the single most amazing entity in the universe, capable of infinite wonders and possessing the ability, if it really wants, to succeed at everything it applies into.
Obviously, this works best within the human mind itself, as it truly is the only entity that can sets its own limits, and be as free and powerful as it believes it is.
With belief, medieval people actually saw the hand of supreme good and evil in every little fact in their lives; they saw demons possessing people, saints killing dragons; now, if you know for sure there is actually a world where any of this this stuff can happen if you want it to, and you are participating in it every single night, do you quite realize how close you are to actually getting to your goals?
You want to get control over your dreams; but dreams are a creation of your mind, so you must first gain control of yourself; and to gain control of yourself, you must first know what you are actually doing, what is your place in life, you must learn to know yourself, every single moment.
You wish to gain control of your dreams; but our mind doesn’t differentiate between reality and dreams; to our mind, what matters are the sensory inputs, and you get those both IWL and in dreams. To us, life is indeed made of the stuff of dreams; so, if you want control over your dreams, that means you want control over your life. Take the steering wheel into your hands, keep a look on the map and the compass and decide for yourself where to go. If you want to be lucid in dreams, be lucid in life - don’t say “I’ll be lucid later”. Be lucid NOW. Don’t think “I want to be lucid”, because there is no try. Just be. Believe you can, and you’ll be right. Become the dream, and the dream will be under your control. Make life YOUR dream.
I’m out Thanks for reading.
EDIT: moved a few paragraphs around.