This will be the place to find the answers you seek before asking them 
There are more and more of the same questions popping up, in different variations. This is an attempt to gather them all, both questions and answers.
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How does it work? This first post will be edited with all questions and answers you supply.
You supply them by replying on this thread. Somebody else will come along and add the answer. Those 2 will be edited into the main faq. It is a little like the acronym topic.
Also feel free to collect questions and answers already asked and answered in other topics and put them in here.
LD4all LD FAQ last update: 15 july 2009
I try so hard but canāt get lucid, is there something I do wrong?
No. For some it happens sooner than others. Try not to want it too much but just let it happen. Donāt despair, be patient and donāt give up. It can take some timeā¦
How long does it take before I have my first lucid dream?
Be patient, donāt try to hard. Some people have their first lucid dream the night after learning about it. Others may take longer. You may have already had one, but forgot. If you are frustrated that it is taking so long, give up. Really! Forget about ātrying to become lucidā and work towards dream recall.
There is no āone-size-fits-all.ā Even for experienced lucid dreamers it is hard to induce a LD at will, or everynight. Though some naturally always lucid dream.
I have dreamt [dreamstory], was that a lucid dream?
If you realise in a dream you are dreaming, you are lucid. When you are talking about dreams in a dream, or say to people in your dream:āhey, I always dream of this!ā (or something similar), that is a sign you are getting there. Your first ārealā lucid dream is probably not far away now.
Iāve searched the forum for MILD, WILD, WBTB, but Iāve found nothing. Where can I find information about these techniques?
Check out the knowledge base. You can also do a forum search for those techniques.
Isnāt it dangerous to dream lucidly?
No. That would be the same as saying dreaming is dangerous, because lucid dreaming is the same like dreaming, only your experience of it is much more intense.
Every time I realise Iām dreaming I wake up. Why is that?
Maybe it is too big a shock for you, or maybe you become very enthousiastic when you realise you are dreaming. That is fatal for lucidity. Try to keep calm and next time remember to do something like the spinning method to stay in your dream.
Can you only talk to persons in your dream or also with other things?
You can talk with and to anything you like. You are in a dream, where everything is possible.
If you fall asleep with music turned on, does it bother you to have lucid dreams?
That depens on you. In fact, you could use it as a lucidity trigger. ('Iām going to sleep now and when I hear music I know Iām dreaming)
What is in your opinion the best book about lucid dreaming for beginners?
āCreative dreamingā by Patricia Garfield.
āPathway to Ecstacy - The way of the Dream Mandalaā by Patricia Garfield
āStop sleeping through your dreamsā by Charles McPhee
āOut the In doorā by Michael Szul
āVirtual Dreamingā by Linda Lane Magallon
āControl your dreamsā by Jayne Gackenbach and Jane Bozveld
āTibetan Yogas of dream and sleepā by Tenzin Wangyal Rinpoche
āThe lucid dreamerā by Malcom Godwin
āExploring the World of Lucid Dreamingā by Stephen Laberge
āLucid Dreaming in 30 Daysā by Weintraub and Harris
āLucid Dreaming Kitā by Paul Devereux and Charla Devereux.
